At the dances I attended in the past, there is a conglomerate of people in the middle of the dance floor that jump up against one another. At times in these dances, people will form an open circle in the middle of the mob and individuals will "strut their stuff" to see who has the best move. Although these dances are fun, they are virtuosic and centered around the individual having fun and take on a more representational view of social bonding. In contrary to the "nightclub" like dances, contra dancing is highly a participatory dance. The reason why I enjoyed it so much was partially because I have never been exposed to participatory dancing before.
The contra dance is very different to main stream dances in a variety of ways. Primarily, there is no distinction between the band playing and the audience expect for the fact that one was sitting and the other was standing. However, the band was right next to the people and wasn't sectioned off on a stage like most nightclubs. Secondly, in night clubs, you don't have to dance if you don't want to. Most people that I see at dances are off to the side reading text messages or getting a drink. In contra dancing, everyone is expected to dance. There is no time for loitering. In fact, one will feel out of place if they are not participating due to the fact that everyone in the room is dancing. The benefit of these participatory dynamics, including non-hierarchical social bonding and success based off of involvement.
I was very pleased to have the privledge of going to the Bloomington contra dance. When our class got there, we were slightly nervous but mostly optimistic. After running through a couple dances, the locals came in and we started our first dance. As the night progressed I started asking the locals if they wanted to dance and they were elated. The two partners that were my favorite were Stephanie and Cathy. Both of these women had twice as much energy as me and made it a blast to be their partner. No matter what happened during the dances, we were always laughing. The best part was when the locals from the group remembered my name by the end of the night!
In addition to the people, I also enjoyed getting out of my comfort zone a bit. I made an absolute fool of myself when I attempted the waltz, but all my reservations went out the window because no one cared if i messed up, they were just glad I was participating.
In the future, I have already made plans to go back to this contra dance and will uphold my promise. My classmate Xavier and I plan to introduce some girls to contra dancing as a double date cause we think it would be a good way to get out of our comfort zones. Overall, I am so glad to have had the experience of participating in such a dance and meeting the wonderful people there. I cant wait to go back during this school year.

